Monday, April 13, 2009

There.s always one, but how do you cope with a wall-flower or party pooper at your own private party thanks!?.

you try twice...once to greet them and look around the room whom they know and say, oh there%26#039;s so and so and see if they go over to join in. If they don%26#039;t then another time you might want to ask how they are enjoying themselves and point out the snack table or ask if they want a drink and have someone else give them one or point them to the bartender. After that it%26#039;s up to them to join in, stand in the back and enjoy watching (maybe they are just a people watcher or are normally introverted or really don%26#039;t have much to say usually but maybe they %26quot;are%26quot; enjoying themselves in what they are doing). It%26#039;s ok to be a wall flower or party pooper....you don%26#039;t have to cope with their personality as they aren%26#039;t harming anyone. Just smile and enjoy your party.

There.s always one, but how do you cope with a wall-flower or party pooper at your own private party thanks!?.
Let them be. Leave them alone and don%26#039;t dare force them to join in with the party!
Reply:They are who they are. Why invite them if you don%26#039;t like them then?
Reply:First of all, I%26#039;m an introvert. I don%26#039;t equate the terms wall-flower and party pooper; they aren%26#039;t the same. People enjoy themselves in their own way. Just b/c someone isn%26#039;t being %26quot;entertaining%26quot; doesn%26#039;t mean they aren%26#039;t having fun. Try including them in the activities. They may just need a little encouraging esp. if they only know the host. I think the host should take the initiative b/c other party goers a) might not know them and/or b) may be too wrapped up in socializing at the party to notice. While hosting a party have a good time, but most importantly make sure the guest are as well. I hope this helps. Enjoy the party.
Reply:It%26#039;s not your responsibility. They are probably used to experiencing parties in this way. In fact maybe they have come out of respect for you, even though they find the party-style socialising difficult. Not everyone enjoys making small-talk with strangers or talking in a noisy environment with friends. They can always enjoy the food, drink, music and people-watching.
Reply:Ignore them! It is too stressful to try and sort them out - and if I have noticed they are like that everyone else will have aswell!!
Reply:Politely involve them in the organisation or in some task that requires interaction with the others. For eg., %26#039;Can you help me with the organisation of.......?
Reply:You might get it into your head that you are there to make the party fun for your guests. Why not approach him and engage him in conversation and bring him over to meet the other party goers. Try to imagine that everything is not all about you and see if you can%26#039;t help him/her to have a good time. That people are shy and have such a hard time engaging with others is not an indication that they have adopted this strategy to annoy you. You thought this person was worth inviting so do all you can to make it fun for him and others like him/her.



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